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It's good to consider traditions when planning your wedding. The following is a sample of traditional wedding etiquette.
 

 


There are many ways to add personal touches and modern twists to traditional wedding etiquette. We love to help you do this, so first it's important to know the traditional etiquette.

Ceremony Etiquette

Processional: The entrance of the wedding party down the aisle. 

Order of Processional 

1. Officiant, Groom, Best man enter together. Groomsmen can enter with them.
2. Each Bridesmaid enters one at a time, either with a groomsman or by herself
3. Maid of honor by herself
4. Flower girl & Ring Bearer (can walk separate if desired, flower girl first)
5. Bride & her father

Recessional: The exit of the wedding party down the aisle.

 
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Order of Recessional

1. Bride & groom
2. Flower girl & Ring Bearer
3. Maid of Honor & Best Man
4. Bridesmaids  & Groomsmen
5. Officiant

 


 

Receiving Line: Wedding party meets and greets the guests one by one. 

The receiving line can take place immediately after ceremony (as guests are ushered out), or at the beginning of the reception.  A small wedding does not need a receiving line.  If you choose to have a receiving line, there are several ways to do it.  The following are two examples.

Order of Receiving Line:

  1. Bride’s Parents
  2. Groom’s Parents
  3. Bride
  4. Groom
  5. Maid of Honor
  6. Best Man
  7. Bridesmaid
  8. Groomsman
  9. Bridesmaid
  10. Groomsman
 
 

If you desire a more efficient receiving line, you can have one without the men.  Most couples prefer it this way. 

Order of Receiving Line #2: 

  1. Mother of bride
  2. Mother of groom
  3. Bride
  4. Groom
  5. Maid of honor
  6. Bridesmaids
 

 

Ceremony Etiquette Tips

*Bride’s family sits on the left, Groom’s sits on right.  (Jewish ceremony is reversed)
*Bride walks on left side of her father
*If you choose to wear a veil, and it is going to cover your face, your father will lift it up and give you a kiss before he sits down. 
*Hand your bouquet to your maid of honor after your father kisses you.
*If you have a father and a stepfather that you are close to, have your father walk you down.  If both men are okay with it, have them both walk you down.  Traditional etiquette does not allow this, but it is your special day, so do whatever you feel is appropriate.
*Parents are in the first row for seating at the ceremony.  If parents are divorced, the mothers will sit in the first row.  If a divorced mother is remarried, she will sit in the first row with her new husband.  The divorced father will sit in the second or third row unless he gets along with the mother.  If that is the case, all parties will sit together in first row. 


 
 


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